Thursday, July 30, 2020

day 63 toward birthday63

Yesterday began as I ate brunch
with Elvis keeping me company,
there in my dining room,
while thoughts of Italy greeted me
from the wall.
Marvelous!
I'm not sure when I last ate my
first meal of the day in that room.
I seem to eat quite often in the sunroom or the living room...
but not in the dining room.
Such a nice change of pace!

Today was about treating myself to a nice meal that someone else had planned and shopped for, that someone else had prepped and cooked, that someone else would plate and serve, that someone else would clear from the table and wash up after I was done.
Where could I go where they would do all of that for me?
The Olive Garden, where they treat me like family!
(smile!)

Of course, that choice may have partially been driven by the $25 gift card burning a hole in my pocket -
nah, they really did have food there that I wanted!
Like this tasty salad, with its tomatoes and black olives that taste so good together - yum!
I ate every last bite, too, using fresh breadsticks, still warm from the oven, to sop up the errant drops of dressing!

First and second courses done, it was time for the entree.
And what had I selected?
A dish I seem to be hooked on: Shrimp Scampi!
I ate half there, than finished up the other half just moments ago, while watching "What Women Want", from 2000, on TBS.
I do so enjoy Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt in lighthearted roles!
Such a sweet way to close out this unique day 63 as I head toward birthday63...
life is so good, even during a pandemic...
even alone, but not lonely...
because I know:
we are all in this together.
I'll be at Asbury Memorial on Sunday to hear Rabbi Haas tell me that same message.
I feel like I'm in on some lovely little joke...
and maybe I am!
Just ask Reverend Billy!
(smile!)

Wednesday, July 29, 2020

day 62 after birthday62

For well over a month, I've had a note posted to my kitchen cabinet: "July 29 - 62 days after birthday62".
I had not known what special something different I would do to mark the occasion, but I knew mark it I would.
I had hoped things might have improved, that I might be able to have family and friends over to share a meal.
Well, that idea certainly will not be made real anytime soon.
My efforts to gather like-minded folks for a trip to St. Simons Island to go to a special screening at a cinema have not panned out either... well, let's just say "not yet".
'Hope' is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul, and sings the tune without the words and never stops at all.
Emily Dickinson had that right.
If ever there was a time to 'Hope', during a pandemic or other crisis is certainly that time.
(smile))
So, what to do, for a girl wanting a movie experience more than aught else?

How about A Night At The Drive-In down in Jesup?
It promised "A Celebration Of Multi-Cultural Voices In Film" through a doubleheader of films, which certainly sounds exactly like my kind of thing.
I found out about it last Wednesday -
and immediately booked my space.
How amazing that there were still tickets available for the free event!
Right place, right time.
The next day, I talked about the excursion to the physicist, hoping he might want to go, too.
He abstained, but that was okay.
I already had my ticket to be there.
After all, I know that if truly I want to do something, I should go ahead and do it, accompanied or not, as missing out was not acceptable.
Hallelujah for knowledge of self!
So, after just one "Quantum Leap" (missed on June 2nd), I jumped in the car!
Road trip south time, rain and all!
And this was waiting for me - a snack box with popcorn, cookies, and a water bottle as a souvenir!
(smile!)
Right place, right time!
How did I know?
Well, there were five spaces left to an oversold show when I arrived 20 minutes before show time.
I parked in space 71 - yeah!
Then, during "Spider-Man: Into The Spider-Verse", the boy is late to physics class and used the excuse: "Einstein said that time is relative."
Hahaha! I used that line, too!
Delightful, just delightful, to know I was where I should be!
i thank You, God!

After the first movie, the majority of the folks started clearing out.
I understood: the time was already 11 PM, on a work day, when the credits began rolling.
I hope they were still tuned to the broadcast channel, though, so they heard Michael B. Jordan's words of thanks for our attendance.
I know that I am grateful that he cares enough about community and diversity to have curated the ten movies for this series.
And just look at this!
I was even treated to a bit of baseball with the second movie!
That would be Jack out in the field, hoping his Dad would be there...
but Peter Pan had grown up, into a man more concerned about his job than his family.
That is, until "Hook" stole the children away one evening -
and I felt my eyes start to droop -
so, it's time for me to go!
I'll be back, though, for another movie, maybe even next week!
Delightful to be part of an audience,
delightful to feel one of many experiencing the same art,
delightful to have something different,
delightful to get the point of this experiment with community building:
we are all in this together.
(smile!)
i thank You, God!

Tuesday, July 28, 2020

tina tuesday with kevin!


Haha! Made you look!
But what I said really is the truth.
Today is Tina Tuesday and I did spend this evening with Kevin...
not the one otherwise know as the bfrb, as he is dangling a fish these days...
but Kevin Doyle, otherwise known as James Marsden.
Hahahahaha! Hahahaha!
I was looking for something light and fun for tonight and I knew "27 Dresses" would fit that bill delightfully - and it did, too!
It's been quite some time since I've seen the 2008 film, but I remembered those kooky bridesmaid's gowns, even though that term cannot really be applied to the one for the Las Vegas wedding.
No, the lower half and part of the top of that one seemed to be missing!
Hahahahaha! Hahahaha!
Just a delightful evening, after a day with a happy ending...
i thank you, God!

Now, to await that hopeful romantic curmudgeon "Becker", otherwise known as Ted Danson, to finish out my night.
And then, tomorrow...
off to the drive-in cinema!!!
Woohoo!
A real movie doubleheader on a real silver screen...
I am so excited about it that I've hardly slept these last two nights!
Plus, tomorrow will mark the 62nd day after my birthday62 -
I am so excited about that, too!
(smile!)

greenlighted all the way home

Off to give blood!
No could do, as I had no appointment.
Swing, and a miss! Strike 1!
Off to vote in run-off election!
No could do, as my party did not have that.
Swing, and a miss! Strike 2!
Well, drats.
Okay, one more errand on the list.
Off to send love through the mail!
An article about beer-making to the ex;
a 'hope you're well' card to mi amiga Sandy;
find-a-word puzzles to Merritt and Conner,
my Alabama nephews.
Was the postage I had on them enough?
It was, it was!
Four balls and a walk to first!
Then I was waved on to second, to third, and finally to home, with green lights all the way.
(smile!)
Now to watch "Family Feud" and have slunch!
(smile!)

Monday, July 27, 2020

why it won't be in a few weeks


THIS is the reason why I won't be able to meet with mi tres amigas anytime soon.
The state I call home has far too many science-illiterates running around.
THIS is proof positive of that allegation.
I don't know why I hadn't noticed it last week.
If my ex had not texted to let me know that the Michigan governor was possibly going to shut down their gyms and bars again and "put them back to Phase 3", I might not have thought to concentrate on that state quite as much as I did on tonight's data-gathering mission.
So, as I was collecting numbers from the eleven different sites I use, I was doing more than simply transcribing the values into my three data tables.
I was comparing the data of one state to that of another...
watching how closely Alabama was following Georgia's trend...
noting the devastation that Oklahoma is having post their rally for the President...
seeing that Michigan and Pennsylvania truly were the only two of the ten that even seemed to be trying to control the spread of the coronavirus.
So, after seeing the numbers - and I mean seeing the numbers - and comparing the data trends in his state and in my state, I was aghast.
Michigan is definitely doing something right, and Georgia is not.
Science bears that out.
Math bears that out.
The graph bears that out, in glorious color.
Michigan is definitely doing something right, and Georgia is not.
This graph has the total number of COVID-19 infections versus the days of July 2020.
In other words, this graph has only the most recent data for the four states depicted.
As noted elsewhere, golden California and orange Florida are running this race far faster than others - not that that is a desirable thing to do.
Like with golf and putt-putt, the goal is to have the lowest total.
Still, as remarkable as their climb has been, Georgia is the true contender.
Georgia, with almost 80,000 cases, on the first day of July, had about the same number of infected people as Michigan had.
Let me allow that to sink in for a moment.
On July 1, the data for Georgia and Michigan was comparable.
That date was the Wednesday before Independence Day, celebrated nationwide, here in Georgia as much as there in Michigan.
Then, when I'd looked at the event from the vantage point of two weeks later, I had not chosen to share the graphs of total infections versus date, as I'd already shared the rate data and the 7-day totals.
So, I'd missed that difference between the data for the dark blue Georgia and the dark green Michigan, lost as it was in the data of so many other states.
Here, in this less cluttered graph, the difference is lit up like Christmas.
Michigan is definitely doing something right, and Georgia is not.
How else to explain why Michigan's total still has not hit 100,000 infected people, but Georgia's population has more than doubled its number of cases to 170,000.
Michigan is definitely doing something right, and Georgia is not.
I don't want to hear about the beaches and the state parks and the hot summer weather...
both states have those in abundance.
In fact, I'd be willing to bet that Michigan has more coastline than Georgia.
Both states began the month with the same number of cases, but Georgia has now doubled its number of COVID cases.
That cannot be refuted.
Michigan is definitely doing something right, and Georgia is not.
As my ex said when I showed him this graph, "I have a sinking feeling that unless every state adopts the same strategies at the same time lines, we're going to be here for a while."
Exactly.
That has been the issue and will continue to be the issue.
Everybody wants to do it their way, not as a team.

I am so thankful Jeff texted something about his governor tonight.

maybe in a few weeks, she said

Not that I can blame her, really.
This time of pandemic has been quite difficult for mi tres amigas.
Sandy has been dealing with radiation treatments for a return of the cancer, thereby severely limiting her interactions with others.
Carolyn is much more outgoing than I am and is accustomed to hardly ever being at home for little more than to sleep.
And then there's Barbara, so used to being on the go around children while teaching or tutoring them.
Sure, we all miss each other's company and our dinners and movies and theatre together -
we all do.
But they are not sociable unsociables like I am.
They have not spent nearly the same amount of 'alone' time as I have.
They miss the near-constant interactions and talking to others that they once enjoyed.
I miss the fleeting touch-and-go, social butterfly, flitting...
and the time spent with them and those few others I am close to.
i thank You, God, for this extra time I've had with my first niece!

--- * ---

So, this afternoon, I sent Barbara a joke I'd fashioned from my American Legion magazine.
Just to get a little chuckle from her, let her know I knew she was out there.

me: "Why didn't the husband want to go shopping with his wife for Victorian antiques?"

her: "I don't know. Why did the husband not want to go shopping with his wife for Victorian antiques?"

me: "Because he was feeling baroque. Lol!"

her: "My students would enjoy that if they only knew what baroque meant!"
her: "I just got an email that I will be teaching online."

me: "Definitely safer. :-) Maybe we should have a late lunch tomorrow and catch up?"

her: "Yes, for the last two weeks I have run the gamut of emotions over losing my job because I refuse to return to class. I was told I'd be replaced as they had to have a teacher in the room. (I'd offered to continue zooming full time.) This afternoon they told me they hadn't found anyone so I will be teaching on zoom. Now I'm going through another panic because I lost two weeks of figuring out how I will get tests to and from the students in a format more legible than what we did last spring. I've spent the last two weeks trying to figure out my finances! What do you have in mind? I do not feel comfortable dining in a restaurant, nor do I feel comfortable being out of doors. Remember I'm accustomed to 76 degrees. If you have not been socializing for two weeks, we might go for $5 foot longs at Subway you could pick up on the way to my house. I'll gladly reimburse you for my share. I'm open to other take out suggestions. Just let me know. I tutor from 1-2 from home so I'm free after 2 pm."

me: "Wow. Okay, sorry to hear about all the school stuff. I guess dining is out of the question for a while. I went to my second Bananas game on the 19th, have been to lunch twice, and went to water slide bounce house party at Christina's house with 9 children on Saturday."
me: "Of course i wore my face covering for most of the time at the ballpark and going in and out at restaurants and stores, so there's that in my favor."

her: "Then we will stay in touch virtually for a while. :-) I have watched a birthday movie. Another has been taken down. We all know little on YouTube is legal. That's still a very thoughtful gift. I'm hopeful some of the others are still there. TV is getting boring."

--- * ---

Then she and I and Christina all watched "The Wall" 'together'.
Christina and I sent text messages back and forth, things like 'if we were on the show' and what questions we got right and the things we would have talked about had we been in the same room.
(smile!)
It was really quite nice, even though the show was a repeat.
So why had we watched a rerun of a game show?
Because we liked the little NYC firefighter and his daughter and wanted to see their happy ending.
We both like happy endings to hopeful stories.
(smile!)

Then I set about fixing links for Barbara's Birthday Film Festival that I'd given her.
Only one of the links was truly bad, but the others just needed a bit of pruning.
I even added a few new links... to the "Moonlighting" episodes I found!
Woohoo!
I know she's going to love those, but maybe not as much as I will!
Bruce Willis!!! Cybill Shepherd!!! Detective agency!!!
Oh, yeah!
So, this is her new-and-improved Birthday Film Festival!

--- * ---

"This Island Earth" 1955 scifi -pretty good!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCT4xTywUEA

"The Abominable Dr. Phibes" 1971 - loved this! fabulous art deco feel
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QfsQB_He0g

"Detour" 1945 - not the movie planned - apt title for the change!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_1-eWCVHD7U

"Come Back To The Five And Dime, Jimmy Dean, Jimmy Dean" 1982 (film version of Broadway play)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OjN31G9KXJA

five episodes of "Moonlighting" - woohoo!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ApCdP3zquE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S-mpxu7fEt4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUmqHwmDbdw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5QnoOHWE_5U

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HY0Ka82sqjg

"Morituri" 1965 Marlon Brando, Yul Brynner WWII war movie, almost all on 1 ship
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2BGHatqGTw

"Meteor" 1979 wow, what a cast!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-sgHv0XLlHA

"The Joker Is Wild" 1957 - Frank Sinatra, Eddie Albert drama w burlesque!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfEX9Z4NkCM

"Night Of The Juggler" 1980 action thriller w James Brolin - heavy on the action!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJj0ZL1r_s4

--- * ---

Last I heard from Boo tonight, she was watching "Detour" and enjoying it.
Mission accomplished!
(smile!)

Sunday, July 26, 2020

first communion in pandemic

Happy World Communion Sunday!
Wait a minute, that's not until October.
Oh, really?
Well, I could swear that's what Asbury Memorial UMC called today.
I guess I will have to check the tape on that.
We were all communing at home, of course, as the church is still closed for worship.
I chose the sandwich part of a Nutter Butter and coffee in my littlest girl superhero mug62 for my bread and drink at the service.
That's a bit unconventional, isn't it?
Sure, I'll grant that, but these are unusual times.
I'd wager that Tevye himself would confirm that the tradition, or ritual, is the important thing, not the type of materials used for the items that are utilized during the tradition.
Well played, dear, well played.
Thank you.
Reverend Billy informed us of such, though maybe not as I stated.
That was in his pre-Sunday, weekly email to the congregation.
I thought the cookie part of the sandwich was acceptable bread.
Anywho, here he is, singing "What A Wonderful World" in his gruffest, most gravelly, voice!
As Louis Armstrong did?
Exactly so!
"Schnozzola and Satchmo", a sermon Billy created 25 years ago, emphasized that we each have a unique sound and that we each have a unique role in our community.
He also emphasized honesty and authenticity, as well as praise and gratitude.
But my favorite part was the fact that no one accomplishes anything alone.
We are all accompanied by each other in this community, just as every singer is accompanied by instruments and audience.
We are all in this together.
That we are.
Every action causes a ripple, whether we acknowledge it or not...
and every ripple affects someone else.
That's why we celebrated communion in the sanctuaries we call our homes, so our bare-naked faces and open mouths could ingest the elements of faith without endangering anyone in our church family.
We are all in this together.
That we are.
I don't know if anything better exemplifies that message than this little statue made by Colleen and bequeathed to us at AMUMC today by her daughter.
"Here I Am, Lord", the title of the piece, is truly the unofficial church anthem, sung at the end of every service, with the congregation standing and participating in the pantomime led by Cheri Hester.
We are all in this together.
Amen, and amen.
i thank You, God.

running the bases film festival


All I was trying to do was get another triple to go with the one from Thursday.
Sure, that one had been a natural, whereas this was to be a contrived thing to stretch out the double from the 18th, a stolen base, so to speak.
That's all I was trying to do.
Instead, I ended up with a home run smacked right over the left wall
hear me?
Right over the left wall!
A little baseball humor, with a side reference to the human heart.
(smile!)
So, how do I want to do this?
Start from the beginning?
Jump right into the triple?
Lead with the end?
Decisions, decisions...
okay, I'll start with the end, kinda sorta (joke for the bfrb!).
The one I just finished was "Henry's Crime", which turned out to be a romantic comedy crime caper from 2010, as Jim Reed would say.
(smile!)
I chose it specifically because it starred an actor from each of the two films I'd tag-teamed on the 18th, "Johnny Mnemonic" from 1995 and "Source Code" from 2011. Both were science fiction action thrillers. The first I'd seen before, featuring my squeeze Keanu Reeves as a traveling man whose brain had room for hire. The latter film was one I'd missed in the cinemas but gladly caught, this time with Jake Gyllenhaal as a man with a traveling brain able to leap about in time. Nice combination for that Saturday night, a solid doubleheader!
But then I had that triple...
which I will get to in a minute...
and I wanted another, I really did.
I really did.
So I looked through the lists of free movies On Demand and found this one, which was perfect as it turned out.
Keanu Reeves was the lead, Henry: a passive man who just let life wash over him, carrying him to prison for a crime he didn't commit.
Vera Farmiga, a longtime favorite of mine who was the handler in the 2011 film, was hopeful romantic Julia this time, striving to be a star actress in Buffalo, NY.
And the play that she was in?
Chekhov's "The Cherry Orchard", the heart of the last play I'd seen from the Savannah Repertory Theatre on my action-packed March weekend.
Whoa... (as Keanu has been known to say).
Seriously, I got all happy and tingly as I watched it!
Right place, right time.
i thank You, God.
All I had been looking for was a a link to allow me to steal third base...
and I got this delightful home run, with the double now two already on base batted-in to score across home plate.
Very nice!
And to think, this had all begun at the end of June!
That's when I noticed that two Steve Martin movies were in their last days as free flicks on TBS - time to grab them while I could!
Yes, I know, I tend to aim for movies that are "new to me".
It would be difficult for a Steve Martin film to fall into that classification.
So, of course, I'd already seen "Father of the Bride" and its sequel...
like, almost thirty years ago when new, plus a few more times...
but I was in a golden mood for a laugh - or two...
so I watched them in sequence, one on the 29th and the other on the 30th.
Marvelous!!!
Then that double was upgraded to a triple on the 1st of July!
On that Sunday night, the Psychotronic Film Society graced me with an even older film, 1983's "The Man With Two Brains", with the marvelous comedic stylings of Kathleen Turner included at no extra charge!
(These online viewing parties from PFS are free, so that's a lil' joke!)
That serendipity led to me deliberately searching out more linked movies, leading to another double (on the 9th) that just so happened to become a triple the next night.
"Games singles play" was the theme and the movies had to ones that I'd never seen.
BET started me off with some "Swag Inc.", in which two guys and their friends invent an app to help other guys get chicks into bed, then out of their lives; pretty good, really.
TBS stepped into the batter's box with "Life As We Know It", featuring a blind date gone horribly awry between two people with mutual friends, full of real humor!
It also had real pathos, created when their mutual friends suddenly die and they have to raise their godchild.
Yikes!
Then I remembered seeing a similar synopsis on Here TV, about two singles who'd never even met, thrown together when a mutual friend dies... oh, yes: "Ciao".
What a lovely third, with remembrances of Italy tossed in for beauty.
Time for more fun, though, even if I had to break the rules and see repeats!
Bounce met the challenge with gusto, providing a star-studded "Rat Race" with John Cleese and visions of Las Vegas!!!
I followed that shot with "The Incredible Burt Wonderstone",  a TBS chaser, again set in Las Vegas, with three funny men filling the screen - yes!
Do I believe in magic?
Yes, yes, I most certainly do!!!
(smile!)
Back to films with action, not words!
That's when I saw the two that started this post.
Then I watched two with women kicking butt, vampire butts at that.
What good movies they were, too!
"Ultraviolet" featured Milla Jojovovich as a plague survivor with a hitch - she's now a vampire, which makes her a bit of a superhero that the humans are trying to kill.
"30 Days of Night: Dark Days" is a survivor of a vampire siege in Alaska, now trying to warn others before the next time the sun sets for a month.
Truly fabulous offerings from Crackle!
Those action films, and that movie 'channel', led to the double that became a true triple, all featuring the same dark hero, all even having similar names and released in sequential years - what a coup!
Listed next to each other in the guide, the 2006 "The Detonator" and the 2007 "The Contractor", starred Wesley Snipes, kicking Romanian butt in the former and being chased down by the CIA in London in the latter.
I very much enjoyed the second one, as it showed a softer side, with him aided in his struggle by a teen-aged English girl who loved horses.
(smile!)
Then, lo and behold!
Before the end of the 23rd, I was rewarded with "The Marksman" of 2005, with Wesley as an Army man kicking Russian butt while trying to blow up a nuclear silo... or was that the target?
Whatever, I so enjoyed watching him and his crew at work!
Plus, that was a third film on the same day - a tripleheader!
Yep, it's been quite a lovely film festival!
Maybe I can find another double before month's end?
Wish me good fortune!
(smile!)

Saturday, July 25, 2020

nine plus two equals ELEVEN!

Here's Christian, the birthday boy, showing off his best tricks with this bouncy house water slide!
This head-forward, downward-facing maneuver was the third such trick that he gave me this afternoon at his Dad's house.
And who is that watching her Bubba splish splash in Hinesville?
Why, that's littlest girl, of course!
Not the napping Chloe, silly -
Miyah papaya!
(smile!)

Leila and Alyssa were there for this delayed birthday celebration, too!
That's Leila in the orange, with Alyssa holding her knees and waiting for the rain storm to stop.
 So, what's the problem with rain at a water slide party?
Not a thing, but that lightning made it scary to be outside!
Time for them and the neighbor kids to come in and eat some chips!
(I had animal crackers!)

The rain delay gave me a chance to give Christian his birthday gifts!
I was about four hours late - lol!
That didn't matter to him!
He loved the joke about the 92 stickers of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles - haha!
He loved that Savannah Bananas baseball cap, too, and the snazzy banana pen!
The sports-themed, paint-them-yourself, mini-posters weren't quite his speed, but the ten tiny tattoos that came along with them certainly were a big hit!
The flaming basketball went directly onto his left bicep - oh, yeah!
What a wonderful party!
Plus, I had a gift for the hostess, my first niece...
an autographed baseball from July of 2013.
She and I and the three foster kids had been to a Sand Gnats baseball game, complete with fireworks and that's when I got that baseball.
I had all four of them autograph it that night!
Then, when I was searching out that Bananas pen, I found the baseball.
Better for her to have it than me!
After all, she was their Mama for a while.
(smile!)

Thursday, July 23, 2020

of the gist with a physicist

How can it be determined from a text message who the originator was?
Trust me.
No one else I know would be doing what he was doing at the time our texts began!
I just have to wonder why it took so long for the bfe to get my telepathic message.
I've been sending it to him for several hours today!
(smile!)

-----   *   -----   *   -----
him: "I am checking up on you! What are you doing?!?!?!?"
me: "Just finished watching a Wesley Snipes movie. WOOHOO! Got another for later, both on Crackle. What about you?"
him: "I am maximizing some entropies. Doing some reading. Watching some final exams roll in. Chillin' like a villain on amoxicillin."
me: "Oh, no, are you ill?"
him. "No, it's just a saying. From a movie called Half-Baked."
me: "Oh, i heard of that, never saw it. Going to a drive-in movie next week! On Wednesday! For free! Down in Jesup. :-) "
him: "I had to look Wesley Snipes up...I see he was in a tv show called A Man Named Hawk...I remember my day watching that. I've seen Blade back in the day."
me: "Love the Blade movies!"
him: "What are you going to see?"
me: "I know they are two for "the kid in you" and the second is Hook. Love that!"
him: "The last drive-in flick I saw was Independence Day. I saw Ferris Bueller last in the park...they brought in a semi...and projected the movie onto the side of trailer."
me: "Yeah, i know Tybee has done that, and Forsyth. They cannot now. Drive-in limits number of cars and asks folks to stay in or near their car. Sounds safe."
him: "But of course. That goes without saying."
me: "Beaufort has a drive-in too. It probably stays busy from the Marine base."
him: "Any drive-in is going to be busy now."
me: "Yes, dear. :-) I know they are almost the only option for silver screen. Jesup also has a small cinema with reduced seating. May check it out tomorrow."
him: "That wouldn't be a bad drive. Though I remember the movies ending very late when I was a child and we would go to the drive in...but of course late may not really translate to late now."
me: "Right now, they have a Rolling Stones in Cuba concert film at drive-in. Have almost gone this week, may go tonight."
him: "That's pretty sweet. I remember when I was a kid...we got three movies and the third movie was the one you wanted to stay up to see. I saw airplane! That way!"
me: "Lol! I just saw Leslie Nielsen in The Alfred Hitchcock Hour! He was so young i almost didnt recognize him... But his eyes and voice gave him away."
him: "I saw the Stones once...as you may imagine they put on a really good show...at least in 1999."
me: "Oh, i am sure! I never saw them. I have not been to very many concerts in last twenty years. I feel the bass in my chest and don't like it."
him: "I like that show...I also enjoyed the bits Alfred Hitchcock would do before the program."
me: "It comes on very late now. Sometimes i watch it, but usually Becker. I like Ted Danson."
him: "Yeah I do amazon and Netflix and YouTube. That's all I watch."
me: "Yeah its my favorite! I have a bunch of films saved there that Jim Reed has shown. He has viewing parties twice a week."
him: "Mostly I do Amazon and YouTube."
me: "I could email you a list of links if you want."
him: "Sure, I would like that."

-----   *   -----   *   -----
And so, that's what I did: emailed him a list of links.
(smile!)
And just why had I been telepathing him earlier?
Mostly because I miss our quasi-monthly get-togethers.
Finding out about the free movie doubleheader as part of the summer promotions at the Jesup drive-in naturally brought the J-Dawg to mind.
Why?
Well, he and I had considered going down there for a movie, just for the nostalgia value of sitting in a car and watching a movie.
We had never done it, due to time constraints, but time really is an odd construct during a pandemic.
It's all relative to one's personal definitions of morning, noon, and night.
I think Einstein would appreciate that.
I wonder how the pandemic of 1918 might have affected his theories of relativity?
Sure, the physicist would say "not at all"... but what if they had not been developed by a 20-something Einstein, but by a 30-something man during that time of death?
That couldn't have helped but make an impact.
(smile!)
Like I said, I miss these meetings with the bfe.
Knowing his fondness for time out of mind things like vaudeville and burlesque and drive-in cinemas, I still have hope that we might enjoy at least one of those things soon.
I had thought maybe in the near future, like next week, on Wednesday.

A Night At The Drive-In promises to be a lot of fun!
With selections curated by Michael B. Jordan and his Outlier Society, the five-week promotion highlights films with diverse casts.
I wish I would have found out about it earlier, but catching it mid-series works beautifully!
"Movies for the kid" - oh, yes, please!
with my man Nicholas Cage!!!
Plus, I get to watch the three-decades old "Hook" on the silver screen, with the delightful Robin Williams playing for kicks against Dustin Hoffman?
With assists from the zany Bob Hoskins and flitting around Julia Roberts?
Yes, YES, YES!!!
Plus, to go along with these movies, there will be free foods from brown and black businesses!
I look forward to sampling those -
Pipcorn Popcorn, minority owned (black family);
Pathwater, minority owned (brown man);
and Partake Cookies, minority owned (black woman).
Nice to know that I'll be able to find them in the store if I really like them!
I'll be sure to let y'all know.
Now, I have a doubleheader with Mr. Snipes to finish... later!
(smile!)

he ain't heavy, he's my outlaw's brother


As the caption reads on the original photograph, this picture is from World War II of a soldier carrying a donkey through a grassy field, with other soldiers walking some distance away.
It is not that the soldier loves donkeys or has some sort of perversion.
What's happening is that the field is mined.
Therefore, if the donkey was free to wander as it pleased, it would likely detonate a charge and kill everyone.
The moral of the story is that during difficult times, the first ones you have to keep under control are the jackasses who don't understand the danger and do as they please.

I think of this photo every time my outlaw's younger brother leaves a comment on one of my fb posts.
His comments are never on point, meant only as a distraction to spew some falsehood he has seen elsewhere and taken for truth.
I don't know why he bothers.
He is so anti-science and anti-data that it's scary.
Still, I respond to his rants, to his repostings of misquoted rhetoric, providing him links to genuine data sites, to reputable news sources, to cold hard numbers that make my case.
All is to no avail.
I had though he was over such shenanigans, but he seems to have stepped up his game of late.
It had been several weeks since he last added any comments to one of my posts, so I thought he had given up on fighting science with me, a scientist.
No, that was not the case.
The disappointing thing was how sloppy his rant was, pieced together hodge-podge from posts that I have seen on others' fb pages, desperate attempts to turn the pandemic into a political quagmire.
Sigh.

I think I'm going to have to put him into a time-out box for a while.
Not just him, either, sadly.
My stepbrother's children and their spouses need a time-out, too.
So does my bfM from Okinawa.
Sigh.

I will certainly be glad when the November election is over.


Tuesday, July 21, 2020

two weeks after independence day

As a reminder, at June's end, the data for the states that I track was all on the rise, as it had been in May and April.
No declines for any, no periods of no new cases of COVID-19 infection.
In other words, this country should still be mired in Phase 1, however every business is open and cash registers are ringing and major league baseball is soon to begin.
Seriously.

Just as a refresher, here are the players for my little tableaus.
I'll start with those in the first graph.
That's Georgia in dark blue, with the squares.
California wears bright yellow and Florida is in sunny orange.
Texas is a dark purple.
Michigan wears the hunter green triangles.
Moving to those in the next graph, Georgia is again in the pack.
Pennsylvania is pale blue and sports little diamonds.
Louisiana resembles black barbed wire.
Tennessee is an indigo blue with circles.
Alabama is spring green, mirroring the data for Georgia.
Oklahoma is that dark yellow-orange at the bottom, post-political rally.

All of this data covers the period from Friday, July 3rd, through Monday, July 20th.
That spans the time from the first day of the USA's Independence Day weekend to the fourteenth day after that special, summer holiday, weekend came to a close.
I'm concentrating on the trends shown for the data at the start of this timeline and the data where it now is, two weeks later.

This graph has the seven-day totals of new COVID cases versus the two-week time span.
California and Texas are bounding over each other in their race from 50,000 upward, upward to 65,000.
Georgia had a brief hiccup downward, but sprang back up and kept climbing.
Michigan has still managed to stay under 10,000 new cases per week, but has inched upward.
But it's Florida, up at the top, which is trying to get a handle on things, especially after that meteoric rise from 60,000 to more than 80,000 cases per week. Currently, it looks to have a second dip in progress, but the theme parks are still open, so all bets are off.

How about those 7-day totals for the other five states?
Georgia is the mack daddy here, having climbed from 18,000 weekly to 27,000 per week.
Louisiana was doing as Georgia did, but instead of continuing a climb, it's fallen back, now at 13,000.
Alabama and Tennessee both began with their bayou cousin at about 10,000, and were holding fairly steady, but then took off as the 4th of July fireworks two weeks earlier had done, thanks to an unhealthy push from COVID parties.
Pennsylvania, though, keeps on truckin', showing what steady is all about, mirroring the actions of their Midwest neighbor, Michigan.
And in Oklahoma, things are not okay and they've surpassed 5,000 cases per week.
Definitely not okay.

So, what's happening with the per capita numbers?
Not much that's good, that's for sure.
Looking at rates of infected people per 100,000 population, Michigan is the only state to consider for a summer vacation.
Their rate rose from 700 per 100,000 to 800 per 100,000.
Florida's rate, on the other hand doubled, ending up at 1600 per 100,000.
Georgia had the next worse climb, from about 900 per 100,000 to 1400 per 100,000.
Texas' rate had a near doubling to about 1100 per 100,000, while California's rate increase was comparable to Georgia's percentage and ended up at about 1000 per 100,000.
That's only looking at the folks who have the disease, not those that have died.
The death toll in Texas has become so unmanageable that they had to call in refrigerated trucks to hold all their dead.

The data for the other five states is represented here, again with Georgia's for comparison.
Pennsylvania's data almost looks like a straight line, compared to the steep rises for the others.
And, as bad as Georgia's rise is, Louisiana's is just as bad, though starting from a higher place.
Tennessee's rise also tracks that of Georgia, though from a lower starting value.
Oklahoma's climbing rate is more moderate than that of Georgia and the others, but it's trying to catch up.
And what has happened to the data for Alabama?
Where's that bright green line?
Look closely... it's peeking out from under the dark blue of Georgia, where it has been mirroring its every move.
Not that it should be doing so.
The ones to mimic are Michigan and Pennsylvania.
By the way, those would be the states for a road trip.
Just make sure to bring a face covering and a congregation of alligators...
for social distancing, of course.
I don't leave home without mine.
Seriously.
Y'all stay safe.

Monday, July 20, 2020

not friends with... who

I'll have to let my ex know the news - I know he'll laugh!
Remember back in April when he realized I was fb 'friends' with his former coworker?
He had been a bit perplexed about that, but he need not fret any longer.
She has unfriended me, without even so much as a farewell.
When did it happen?
Well, sometime this month, although I cannot pinpoint the date.
I had noticed that I had not seen any of her posts lately, no new funnies to add to my list and nothing more of her new adventures in radio as alter-ego Marguerite Springfield.
So I went in search of the window to her life...
and I found the drapes had been drawn and the window closed.
She was no longer in my list of friends.
Poof!
I cannot even see her profile picture anymore.
I'm not sure if she has blocked me from seeing her comments on other's posts, but she well may have.
We shared many radio-world friends in that social media world.
Time will tell.
And just why did she take this stance against me?
Well, that's what Jeff is really going to laugh about!
She had wanted me to reprimand two of my friends for supposed grievances with two of her friends.
No, seriously.
Maybe being a mother of teens in this time of pandemic has short-circuited her system.
Maybe the loss of control pervading society has been too much for her.
Who knows?
And how had all of this come to pass?
Well, I still have the fb messenger conversation from last month.
Please notice that not once did she tell me names of her 'wronged' pals.
Kindly let me know if I was in the wrong in my advice to her.
Thanks!

--- * --- * ---
conversation from fb messenger between myself and Marguerite Dismukes Fischer (i.e., "her")

Jun 4, 2020, 5:44 PM
-her-
Someone on your friend list is stalking one of my friends and inciting violence.
It's very scary because I can't imagine you associating with someone like that.
She has stalked other people too.
A very angry person.

Jun 5, 2020, 8:13 PM
-me-
Say what???
I can't imagine who that would be!
Seriously.

Jun 20, 2020, 3:18 AM
-her-
I'll have to try to find her name again.
This other friend of yours (photo shown) was bullying a female cop on Facebook.

Jun 21, 2020, 7:35 PM
-me-
I have known Jo since I was 16 years old.
I can tell you she absolutely would NOT do such a thing.
Period.

Jun 22, 2020, 12:31 PM
-her-
Yep, she did.
Melanie G is stalking one of my friends.

Jun 25, 2020, 1:39 PM
-me-
I don't know what you want from me, Marguerite.
Your friends should confront directly those that they believe are harassing them.
That's all I can say.
We are all grown... aren't we?

Jun 25, 2020, 1:41 PM
-her-
I'd want to know if my friends were being out of line but okay.
One of my friends had to get police involved.

Jun 25, 2020, 1:45 PM
-me-
It's all about perspective.
I trust that all of the people you are talking about are adults.
They need to behave as such.
Seriously, what did you expect ME to do about these people YOU know?
For all I know, they are misinterpreting the situation.
I am not anyone's legal guardian, so I have no ability to police someone else's actions.

--- * --- * ---

So, having read it yet again, I am still perplexed.
Why was she tattling to me about these grievances?
Why didn't she give me her aggrieved friends' names?
Had they asked her to intervene and confront me?
Sigh.

Yeah, Jeff is going to get a hoot out of this.
I guess that's the silver lining in this cloud.
(smile!)

Sunday, July 19, 2020

nearly normal summer sunday

First, I watched "CBS Sunday Morning" - and the local station had the sound working!
Most excellent!
Then I watched ABC's "Teen Kids News" and they were talking about the electoral college.
Cool, that's cool.
Time to stop puttering about with my cup of coffee and have breakfast!
That's right, I said "breakfast", not "brunch", though it was certainly late enough to be the latter.
But today it was definitely "breakfast" and I had pepperoni eggs as I sipped more coffee and read "News of the Weird" in Connect Savannah, issue date July 17-23, 2019.
Say what???
Yes, I know, it's a year old.
I "d to the c" absolutely don't care!
I'd come across a cache of three old issues in the news stand while I was doing laundry on Thursday, so I'd snatched them up like they were precious jewels.
Why?
To make my Sundays nearly normal for a change.
So after reading the "people are strange" bits, I had the true treasure: Jonesin' Crossword!
Oh, what joy!
No, I'm being completely serious.
I worked the entire puzzle and considered it done when the only twelve blank tiles, all for clues to names of people I did not know, but could google... but that would be cheating.
(smile!)
Next, time to wash dishes and make a bit of food for later - corn on the cob! Georgia caviar! - and then wash me.
Oh, yes, and do that Elisa thing, too.
(smile!!)
Know what I did then?
I had saved Jim's movie choice from last Sunday for this afternoon, as it was a black & white 1957 musical drama with Frank Sinatra, "The Joker Is Wild".
Why had I done that?
Because Mama and I used to watch this kind of movie on Saturday and Sunday afternoons.
"Perfect," I'd said to myself, when this idea had materialized in my head yesterday.
Perfect it was, too, with a surprise: Eddie Albert was in it, too, playing piano in their lounge act!
And... there was burlesque!
Lots and lots of lovely burlesque!
One of my favorite lines was during the dance scene.
"We're the only real people here," Joe E. Lewis told Letty Page.
"The rest of them are just shadows."
So he said of the people partying on the other side of the cyclorama -
the movie screen in the theatre.
A recurring theme sprang to mind:
"How apt a description for little fictional characters."
(smile!)
The movie, based on Lewis' real life, was very good, and I knew Barbara would enjoy it.
Last Saturday was her 69th birthday, so I curated a Birthday Film Festival for her, using eight of the PFS films from the past two months.
I'm betting the only one she'll know is the Steve Martin film!
I'm also betting that her favorite is going to be the film version of a Broadway play with a female cast full of stars.
I thought it was good, but she's more girlie and is bound to love it!
Afterward, time to take in something relaxing... like the Ray Stevens' show!
I don't always watch it, but I'm glad I did today - John Schneider was on!
And justthatfast, when I saw him, I leapt back in time to 1983 and my life in San Diego and going with Dave Eschedor (my boyfriend) to Calico, a gold-mining 'ghost' town, and seeing the actor in the parade there.
Although I didn't know who he was, plenty of folks there watched his show, "Dukes of Hazard", which was in the middle of its six-year run in 1983.
Ah, good times, good times!
Oh! Before I forget!
Ray told a really cute joke from his grandpa!
What is perfect pitch?
The ability to throw a banjo far enough you can't hear it hit the ground.

Hahahaha! Hahaha!
Time to go off to my second ball game at Grayson Stadium!
Tonight, the Savannah Bananas were again hosting the Lexington County Blowfish, as at my first game, but this time the second string boys of summer represented the home team.
Honestly, if not for Scott's second game being last night, when the Bananas were also listed as playing at Macon that night, I wouldn't have known.
It certainly isn't something I've heard the Bananas talk about.
FYI, last night's two games were a wash, with a win on home turf and a loss away with the Bacon.
The men who played tonight were mostly the same men from last night's home game, but only a few played in the other game I saw.
Bananas in motion, just like in the upper photo, taken at the end of the top of the 6th.
Love that rosy pink contrail!
By the end of the Bananas' turn, ten minutes later, night had fallen.
Not much later, the Blowfish had fallen, too, giving us another win.
After a lovely visit with Jennifer and Mario Incorvaia, I stepped out to the front apron in time to see the dancing Banana, Maceo, giving a dance lesson to a fan, reminding her to floss as he did so.
Hahahaha! Hahaha!
Here's the really funny thing: I saw Russell, the guy who invented that silly 'dance', on "To Tell The Truth" last week!
Right place, right time!
I so love coincidences!
i thank You, God!

Friday, July 17, 2020

poking the bear, Marcy

Hahahaha!
That line from "Married... With Children" is just what was needed here!
No, it really is!
See, I poked the running bear today and we ended up talking about parents of children.
Really, truly, I did and we did!
I started with a joke, knowing the bfrb loves those.
Then he told a joke (which I chose to not repeat) and he caught me up on his life.
That's when the conversation turned to parents of children.
Just look at this!

me: "What is written on a dentist's grave?"

him: "He's filled his last cavity ?"

me: "Yes! I figured you might get that one, but I tried!"

(He sent this image in reply.)

me: "How are you doing?
Those eyes look sad.
Or is it just the effort of pushing air through that tuba?"

him: "Both I suppose.
1) Looks like paycuts are happening.
But it's not completely clear how severe they will be so that's not great.
2) I've leveled up with the training.
Cutting weight like crazy now that I've tightened up my diet.
3) I've meet someone!
How about that.
Next week is date number 5.
We're kinda adorable together.
4) the business buzz is not looking good for movie theaters.
If they can't reopen soon they could be facing bankruptcy."

me: "Good for you with the dating and body work, sorry to hear about the job and pay cuts.
I was just thinking earlier how much I miss the cinema experience."

him: "Movie theaters could indeed become a relic of the past.
They were struggling before this anyway."

me: "The drive-ins have been okay."

him: "Bah! I'm not a teenager from the seventies."

me: "Well, if you are a parent during a pandemic, they are an excellent option."

him: "I suppose."

me: "Plus, there are two that are fairly close.
I have even been invited to tag along some time, but they have been busy with car shows."

So... see?
Just as I'd said!
I may have to test drive the drive-in experience myself this coming week.
The one in Jesup has "The Rolling Stones: Havana Moon" starting and I would looooove to see this concert of them in Cuba!
Maybe I'll do that on Monday...
I've already checked the "Quantum Leap" schedule and I've seen those two episodes!
(smile!)

i've been summoned again!

First I was summoned to Midway on Wednesday!
Now, I've been summoned to Richmond Hill!
I must say, I do so enjoy this whole business of getting summoned by people I love!
This time, it was my darling first niece issuing the summons.
She was in dire need of a Mexican food fix - so of course I came running to her rescue!
I secured a lovely corner table outside at Jalapenos, where a nice breeze kept us fairly refreshed.
Mostly, though, it was having each other's company, and this comfort food, that brought us happiness!
Isn't her blouse so beautiful?
Mama would have adored her coordinated ensemble!
Perhaps she helped frame this photo to remind me of a delightful time with a Cuban missile crisis...
very nice call!
I almost feel like I've been on a little holiday.
(smile!)
Good times!
i thank You, God!

Thursday, July 16, 2020

until death do you part

HA HA.
Made you look.
If you're thinking this is about marriage, you are incorrect.
Welcome to a lesson about viruses.
No, not specifically the one behind this current pandemic.
For starters, scientists and medical professionals are still gathering data there.
That means the jury is still out, deliberating on what to do with that case.
The viruses I'm going to present are some we've known for decades.
What, those are the ones we already know everything about?
No, we don't.
Those are the ones we already have vaccines to protect us?
No, you wish.
Remember, SARS-CoV-2 is related to the common cold virus - no cure for that yet, no magic vaccine to keep us from getting it again and again and again, with us susceptible to catching a cold from the day we are born until the day we die...
you know, until death do us part.
The best option we have when we are ill with a cold is to ingest a variety of drugs to relieve the symptoms.
So, what is the case for folks hit by the common cold's bully sibling?
Right now, six months into the pandemic stepping foot on USA soil, the options for relief are few and none are over the counter.
As Dr. Anthony Fauci said three days ago, only two drugs of all those tested have been demonstrated to have some limited ability for symptom relief in COVID patients, one (dexamethasone) for those on ventilators and requiring oxygen, the other (remdesivir) for those on low-flow oxygen, but not on ventilators.
For those patients, with death a distinct probability, on ventilators or in need of constant oxygen flow, those drugs are a desperate, last-ditch, Hail Mary, effort to stave off death -
if the drug itself doesn't kill them.
So, I promised a lesson on viruses that stay with us until death, so let's begin.

Chickenpox is a disease caused by the varicella-zoster virus.
Lots of people have had that disease, and probably don't think about it much once the initial illness has passed.
But the virus stays in your body and lives there forever, and maybe when you're older, you have debilitatingly painful outbreaks of shingles.
You don't just get over this virus in a few weeks, never to have another health effect.
The relationship between chickenpox and shingles was discovered in 1888; tge realization that both were caused by the varicella virus was not determined until 1943, thanks to Helmut Ruska. (His brother had invented the electron microscope in 1933, allowing such research about virus structure to even become possible. In 1939, H. Ruska used the device to determine the structure of the tobacco mosaic virus, the first substance to be called a virus.
By the way, the TMV is also a (+) ss RNA virus... just like the common cold virus and this latest novel coronavirus, but affecting plants.)
Yes, there is the varicella vaccine to prevent the virus from infecting a person and giving them chickenpox - but that vaccine has only been available in the USA since 1995.
That vaccine is part of the group of immunizations given to children.
Yes, there is the zoster vaccine to prevent the virus from causing shingles in adults who once had chickenpox; that vaccine has only been available in the USA since 2006.
We know all this because the disease been around since at least 1658 (when it first appears in the Oxford University dictionary), and has been studied medically for more than three hundred years.

Herpes is also a disease caused by a virus, the herpes simplex virus.
And once someone has been infected by one of the two strains of that virus, it stays in your body and lives there forever, and anytime they get a little run down or stressed-out they're going to have an outbreak of the disease.
Maybe every time you have a big event coming up (school pictures, job interview, big date), you're going to get a cold sore, on your mouth tissue or genital area.
For the rest of your life, until death do you part.
You don't just get over it in a few weeks.
Moreover, to date there is no vaccine to prevent infection by the virus, nor will there ever be; it is not curable.
We know this because it's been around for at least 2000 years, and has been studied medically for at least two hundred years.

AIDS is a collection of diseases caused by human immunodeficiency virus.
That causality link between the disease and the virus was established in 1983 by Robert Gallo.
The virus attacks the immune system and makes the carrier far more vulnerable to other illnesses.
Over time, that takes a toll on the body, putting people living with HIV at greater risk for health conditions such as cardiovascular disease, kidney disease, diabetes, bone disease, liver disease, cognitive disorders, and some types of cancer.
Once you have the virus, it stays in your body and lives there forever, for the rest of your life, until death do you part.
There is no cure, but there are drugs to keep the virus from developing into AIDS.
It was decades before viable treatments were developed that allowed people to live with a reasonable quality of life.
As of this time, there is no vaccine to prevent being infected by the virus.
We know this because it has been around for forty years, and has been studied medically for all of those forty years.

COVID-19 is a disease caused by severe acute respiratory syndrome coronavirus, aka SARS-CoV-2, a novel virus that spreads rapidly and easily.
The full spectrum of symptoms and health effects is only just beginning to be cataloged, much less understood.
So far the symptoms may include:
Fever
Fatigue
Coughing
Pneumonia
Chills/Trembling
Acute respiratory distress
Lung damage (potentially permanent)
Loss of taste (a neurological symptom)
Sore throat
Headaches
Difficulty breathing
Mental confusion
Diarrhea
Nausea or vomiting
Loss of appetite
Strokes have also been reported in some people who have COVID-19 (even in the relatively young)
Swollen eyes
Blood clots
Seizures
Liver damage
Kidney damage
Rash
COVID toes (weird, right?)

People testing positive for COVID-19 have been documented to be sick even after 60 days.
Many people are sick for weeks, get better, and then experience a rapid and sudden flare up and get sick all over again.
COVID-19 may cause a more complex reaction in children.
Multisystem inflammatory syndrome in children, also called MIS-C, is a condition where different body parts can become inflamed, including the heart, lungs, kidneys, brain, skin, eyes, or gastrointestinal organs.
Children with MIS-C may have a fever and various symptoms, including abdominal pain, vomiting, diarrhea, neck pain, rash, bloodshot eyes, or feeling extra tired.
While rare, it has caused deaths.
Many, but not all, children with MIS-C test negative for a current infection with the virus that causes COVID-19.
Yet evidence indicates that many of these children were infected with the COVID-19 virus in the past, as shown by positive antibody test results.

COVID-19 has not been around for years.
It has basically been in existence for 7 months.
No one knows yet the long-term health effects, or how it may present itself years down the road for people who have been exposed.
We literally *do not know* what we do not know.
Will it be more like herpes, flaring up in an infected person's life ever time they are stressed?
Will it be more like AIDS, with an infected person more susceptible to death by rare cancers?
Will it be more like chickenpox, with a counterpart that shows up decades later in an infected person's life?
We do not know and will not know for many years.

So, that's the end of the lesson, y'all.

For those in our society who suggest that people being cautious are cowards, for people who refuse to take even the simplest of precautions to protect themselves and those around them, I want to ask, in all sincerity:
Won't you please reconsider your stance?

Literally no one knows who will be the lucky "mild symptoms" case, and who may fall ill and die.
Because while we know that some people are more susceptible to suffering a more serious case, we also know that 20 and 30-year-olds have died, marathon runners and fitness nuts have died, children and infants have died.

Medical experts acknowledge that there is so much we don't yet know, but with what we DO know, they are smart enough to be scared of how easily this is spread.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends baseline precautions.
Frequent hand-washing
Physical distancing
Reduced social/public contact or interaction
Mask wearing
Covering your cough or sneeze
Avoiding touching your face
Sanitizing frequently touched surfaces

These seem to be the same basic guidelines parents teach their children.
As adults, shouldn't we be able to accomplish these simple tasks?

The more things we can all do to mitigate our risk of exposure, the better off we all are.
By following those basic guidelines, we help flatten the curve for number of infected people versus time, heading toward the goal of no new cases.
By washing our hands and wearing a mask, we allow health care providers to maintain levels of service that aren't immediately and catastrophically overwhelmed.
By practicing social distancing, we reduce unnecessary suffering and deaths.
By reducing physical contact and avoiding crowds, we help buy time for the scientific community to study the virus in order to come to a more full understanding of the breadth of its impacts in both the short and long term.

We can do this, folks.
I'm doing my part to protect YOU.
I ask that yu please do the same to protect me.
Thank you.